For the best results, use high-quality phyllo dough and ensure it is properly thawed. Work quickly with the phyllo to prevent it from drying out. If you don't have dark rum, you can substitute with brandy or bourbon for a similar flavor profile. The eggnog cream can be made a day ahead and stored in the refrigerator. Just be sure to give it a good stir before folding in the whipped cream. To prevent the phyllo from becoming soggy, assemble the Napoleons shortly before serving. For a festive touch, you can decorate the Napoleons with sugared cranberries or a sprinkle of edible gold glitter.